Archive - The Art of Losing

Your silence is maybe not violence?

Jul 9 •

June 2025

Shouts & Murmurs Rejects: To that one friend in the group chat...

Jun 17 •

May 2025

Mike Tyson, Logan Paul, and Human Intimacy

What happened was this: while I was visiting my parents in Pittsburgh, Matt started watching this reality show called Paul American about the lives of…

May 30 •

April 2025

Synchronicity N'at

Or: "When I'm wrong, I say I'm wrong."

Apr 30 •

“The Possibility of Other Logics”

Or, is anyone actually "following the science"?

Apr 9 •

March 2025

Shadow Work is Fun

"It can be fun."

Mar 4 •

February 2025

I have even more to say!

On prioritizing motherhood, how that's not 'cool', and Chapter 7 of Resume Gap

Feb 12 •

January 2025

3800 words on the LA wildfires, Art Spiegelman's Maus, and what I lost in 2024

Jan 22 •

December 2024

Want to Get in Touch with Yourself?

Try a Menstrual Cup.

Dec 11, 2024 •

November 2024

The Art of Losing 2.0

When I started this Substack a year and a half ago and named it “The Art of Losing,” I was mostly thinking of Rafael Nadal.

Nov 20, 2024 •

October 2024

Combative Pacifist

An explainer of sorts

Oct 29, 2024 •

I Don't Think You're Totally Wrong

We're just in different tax brackets

Oct 8, 2024 •

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